Awukho umdlalo ngokwawo owenziwe ngenjongo yokwenzakalisa abasebenzisi bawo, ke ngoko, akulunganga ukudlala uMlilo wasimahla ukuba nje ungabi likhoboka kwaye uthatha uxanduva olubandakanya nawuphi na omnye umdlalo wevidiyo.
Ewe, nantsi eyona nto ibalulekileyo ayikuko ukubushiya ubomi bakho bungento, kwaye ungaphantsi komdlalo, kuya kufuneka uyithathe njengeyona nto uyithandayo ngexesha lakho lasimahla ngaphandle kokushiya uxanduva kunye nobudlelwane bakho ecaleni.
YINTONI ENGALUNGAYO NGOKUDLALA UMLILO WAMAHHALA?
Ngelixa kuyinyani ukuba umdlalo unokuphucula amanqanaba akho okuhoya, ukukunika amandla ngakumbi kwiingqondo zakho, kwaye kutheni ungasusi isithukuthezi okwethutyana, njengazo zonke izinto ezingaphezulu, ukudlala uMlilo wasimahla ixesha elide kunokuba liphupha elibi ubomi bakho nabantu abakungqongileyo.
Ewe, ingakususa ebantwini obathandayo kwaye yahlule kwizinto ozithandayo ebomini, kwaye yintoni eyona imbi kakhulu? Yonke le nto iya kwenzeka ngaphandle kokuba uyiqonde, sinokuthi yinto ethile engendawo.
Ingxaki ayisiyokuba utyale ixesha elincinci kwiselfowuni yakho, umdlalo wakho kunye nokwandisa amanqanaba akho, eyona ngxaki inene kuxa ixesha lelo xesha liba lixesha lakho lonke.
KUTHENI UMDLALO WOMLILO WASIMAHLA UNOLUDUMO LUBI?
Uninzi lwabantu lube namava amabi nomdlalo, oku kubandakanya abasebenzisi kunye neentsapho zabo, ngakumbi abazali.
Abanye abantu abancinci babanga ukuba baye bafumana amava e-extrasensory okanye paranormal ngelixa bedlala uMlilo wasimahla.
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, iividiyo zamantombazana namakhwenkwe ezichaphazeleka ngokucacileyo kukungcakaza zikhutshiwe, zicela abanye ukuba bangazisebenzisi, belila, bekhwaza, njl. Abanye baqinisekisile ukubona izidalwa ezingaqhelekanga ebaleni ngelixa bedlala umdlalo.
Zonke ezi meko ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ngamarhe omdlali, kodwa akukho siqinisekiso ngawo.
YINTONI INGXAKI YOKWENENE?
Kukho ubunzima obukhoyo kulo mdlalo, ikakhulu obunxulumene nenxalenye yengqondo yabasebenzisi bayo.
Kuba phantse bonke abantu abanxulumene ngandlela thile noMlilo waMahala baqinisekisa ukuba umdlalo ukhobokisa kakhulu, kwaye oku kukhokelela abazali kunye nabasemagunyeni ukuba bakhathazeke kakhulu ngokhuseleko lwabantwana babo.
Abazali abaliqela ekuye kwaboniswana nabo ngalo mxholo baye baneempendulo ezifanayo, kwaye kukuba abantwana babonisa ukuba bodwa, ubundlongondlongo, ixhala, phakathi kwezinye izinto ezingaqhelekanga zokuziphatha, konke oku ngokwazi kunye nokuqalisa umdlalo wasimahla woMlilo kwizixhobo zabo eziphathwayo.
Enye indlela yokuziphatha kukuba abantwana bayeke ukutya, bahlala bodwa kwaye batshixiwe kumagumbi abo kwaye abakucingi ukuxelelwa nantoni na malunga nokulutha kwabo, kuba banomdla wokuwina umdlalo.
Abazali bakhethe ukuthintela ukungcakaza okanye basuse abantwana kwiiselfowuni, kodwa basabele ngendlela enomsindo, belila kwaye betha izinto.
Ukongeza kwiindlela zabo zokuziphatha ezigwenxa ekhaya, bakwabonisa kumaziko emfundo apho bathabatha inxaxheba kwiingxoxo ezisebenzayo kunye nabo bafunda nabo ngenxa yokungcakaza, ootitshala abaninzi bathe abafundi babo sele
Abonwabi ngexesha lekhefu kuba bahlala bethambekiswa ziiselfowuni ngesandla.
YINTONI ETHETHWA NGABO OOSOSAZIKHAYA NGAYO?
Iingcali ziqinisekisa ukuba kuphela kwabo banoxanduva ngabazali babantwana, kuba kufuneka bayazi into eyenziwa ngabantwana babo kwiiselfowuni kwaye banolawulo olungqongqo ngokuchasene nayo.
Bayathetha nangeengxaki ezahlukeneyo zengqondo ezinokubangelwa kukungcakaza kwabanye abantu, kuba imidlalo yemipu ayiyiyo eyabantu bonke kwaye incinci nakubantwana.
Oku kungenxa yokuba amaxesha amaninzi bakhula benengqondo yokufuna ukwenza umdlalo ube yinyani kwaye kule meko ukubulawa kwabantu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kuye kwafunyanwa kwimbali.
KUTHENI LE NGXAKI IKHO?
Iingcali eziphande nzulu ngomdlalo ziyaqinisekisa ukuba le meko ibangelwa yinto yokuba isiqubulo somdlalo sithi 'iadrenaline yakho iya kuphakama ngokuchaseneyo nabachasi obabulalayo', ngamanye amaxesha abantu abathanda ukuthatha inyani.
UKUFA UKUDLALA UMLILO MAHHALA
Umkhwa wokungakwazi ukushiya umdlalo okomzuzu uye wathetha ukuba kwamanye amazwe abantu abancinci kunye nabantu abadala baye babalekelwa ukuphuma bayokujonga iselfowuni, njengoko benqumla iindlela ngaphandle koncedo, ngokuxhomekeka kokuhamba kwabo kunye nokusebenzisa ii-headphone.
Yintoni engashiyanga kuphela ukwenzakala kodwa nokufa.
Abantwana abaninzi bathabathe indawo yokusabela kulo mdlalo kangangokuba into yokuphulukana nemidlalo ikuthatha njengokudana okukhulu, abangakhange bakwazi ukoyisa, kwaye ngenxa yokuxhatshazwa kunye nosizi lobuqu lokoyiswa, ngelishwa bakhetha ukuthatha ubomi babo.
Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abazali babazi abantwana babo kwaye basebenzise ulawulo lwabazali ngezixhobo zabo.
Kwaye kuyinyani ukuba phantse bonke abantwana namhlanje baneeselfowuni kwaye uninzi lwabazali abanalo ulawulo olucacileyo kwizicelo abazisebenzisayo kubo.
NAZI IINGXAKI ZOKUDLALA UMLILO WAMAHHALA NGAPHANTSI KOBUDALA?
Ngokwenyani, hayi, kuba kukwakho nobunzima obunokuvezwa ngabantu abadala, uninzi lwezi zinxulumene nokuchitha imali ngokugqithileyo ekungcakazeni, maxa wambi ekhokelela kubunzima kusapho ngokwasemalini.
Kwaye kutheni kungenjalo, kufuneka sicacise ukuba ungaphulukana nabantu abakungqongileyo ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi kwisixhobo esiphathwayo kunosapho kunye nabahlobo bakho.
Kubalulekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo ukuphathwa kolwazi eligunyazisiweyo kula maqonga kunye nokukhumbuza abasebenzisi ukuba ulwazi lomntu siqu okanye lwezezimali akufuneki lunikwe nawuphi na omnye umsebenzisi womdlalo.
Ewe, uyazi ukuba kukho abantu abangena kula maqonga befuna okungaphezulu kokudlala ukonzakalisa abanye.